Archive | November 2015

Are you living intentionally?

 

Are you living with regret? What do you wish you were doing?  What do you wish you did?

Ultimately, fear and the inner voice hold us ALL back from living an intentional life.MW

What is an intentional life?  According to John C. Maxwell, it’s a “life that brings you daily satisfaction and continual rewards for merely working to make a difference in the lives of other.”  To me, living intentional means to live with purpose!

Living intentionally makes me think about wanting to improve myself. That’s a good purpose, right?!?  Shouldn’t we all want to be better humans?  But it makes me think of the people around me who refuse to grow. They are consumed by their ego. They want things only their way. They refuse to listen to suggestions. They want to be the ones who are always talking. They are never responsible for anything going on and need to point the finger to someone else. They are too comfortable where they are, but probably unhappy because of it. They are not willing to have the uncomfortable conversations. They are not willing to listen to others about their weaknesses. They are obviously not willing to improve as a human and think THEY ARE GOOD ENOUGH!

Does that sit well with you?  Do you want to be ONLY good enough?  Not me!  I know living intentional will be uncomfortable. I know it will give me some grey hair and wrinkles. Thank God for hair dye and Botox! While the discomfort will be there, I know it too shall pass! On the other side of the uncomfortable will be a fulfilled soul. I mean isn’t that why we are here in earth school? Our souls want to grow and be fulfilled.  Right?

As Marianne Williamson often discusses, living a life based on love (not fear) is like a muscle. The more we use it the more it will strengthen!  Make love (not war) your purpose! 😍 Ha!

What I know for sure is that when we stop protecting our heart and live from it, it will steer us in MW2the right direction and the brain along with the inner voice will get out of the way.  Living intentionally will cause you to help others.  And by helping others get what they want, you will get what you want according to Zig Ziglar.  So what is it that your heart truly wants?

I encourage each of you to do something intentional today. Embrace that little uncomfortable twinge. Notice where it is coming from in your body. Acknowledge it and rock it like a baby. Then immediately after you do the uncomfortable thing, notice how much stronger you feel. Don’t ask yourself how you feel hours after. That will give time for that inner voice to question what you did. Ask it, immediately after! 🙂  I would love to hear about the little uncomfortable acts you reached for!

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Is IPL a Cure for Pigment Issues?

ipl-individual1-a-lgAs we approach the holiday season, IPL can become popular to erase the evidence from the fun in the sun over the summer! And while it can have remarkable results, the question becomes “Is it going to cure the pigment issue”?

First, one must understand where the pigment comes from.  Mottled pigment comes from aggravated melanocytes deep within the layers of the skin. Melanin is pushed up to the surface over time. Melanocytes become irritated from various triggers including hormones, heat, tanning, and more.  If triggers are still present, significant improvement will be difficult despite how many treatments are performed.

Second, IPL is a light based laser.  There is no true beam, so it covers more surface area than other lasers.  There is no ablation, so there really is not any downtime.  In an IPL treatment, the light is converted into heat to target set wavelengths (colors) via the use of filters.  The target is where the heat is absorbed.  In the case of pigment, the setting would be filtered to target “brown” wavelengths .  Once targeted, the brown spots that fall within the set wavelength spectrum darken. Over  a couple weeks, they eventually shed and the skin is clearer.  You may be wondering for how long?

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So, while the IPL beam has the ability to potentially reach portions of the melanocyte and clear the melanin in those areas, as mentioned above, if there is a trigger such as tanning present, the melanocyte will continue to “cry” melanin.  If the patient is avoiding all triggers, the results could last for years.  Most of the time living in Florida, I recommend something to help remind the melanocytes not to “cry”.  I like to be more aggressive during the summer with hydroquinone creams and use the cooler months for maintenance with hydroquinone-free creams.

If you are thinking about an IPL for the holidays, this would be a great time to consider since it may take 2 weeks to clear the treated pigment.  I am also offering IPL for $325 for the month of November to help get your holiday glow started! “Tis the season to be beautiful! 🙂

 

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Minion and the Soul

“Mind, body, and soul” are three words used often these days when talking about holistic or new age exercises or treatments.  So, we are all too familiar with them, but have you ever really thought about them?

As you reflect on the words, it makes you realized we should look at ourselves at three parts: a body, a mind, and a soul.  As I dig deeper into my spiritual journey, I can appreciate more and more the separation of the three within the same vessel.

Years ago when I was in church, the priest was talking about the body as a tomb as he was reflecting on John 2:19-“Jesus answered and said unto them, Destroy this temple, and in three days I will raise it up.”  And we all know that in 3 days, he was resurrected after being nailed to a cross.  At that moment, it clicked for me.  We are all but a vessel for this soul.   We should honor the tomb that encases the soul, but the golden nugget, the light for all to see, is hidden beneath all these carbon, oxygen, and hydrogen atoms that make up the body.  Being a visual person, I immediately thought about Minion from Megamind!

Minion is the fish dude on the left

Minion is the fish dude on the left

Minon is the little fish character that lives inside this walking fish tank.  It’s a bit robotic, but he does help save Metropolis from the DNA altered Hal (bad guy) by driving the spider bot. Anyhoo, he popped into my head because I envision the little fish guy as the soul and the robotic body as the well, the body.  I am not sure if the visual works for you, but it helps me.

Everyone seems so worried about the body component. That has become the priority.  We MUST exercise, diet, color our hair, and get Botox to look good, but a big part of “US” is being forgotten!  We need to cater to the soul.  It’s what has everlasting life, not the body.  The soul is why we are here; it wants to learn and grow in this life.  I believe, we need to train and tame them all to get a balanced triad or trinity.

Too much ego!

     Too much ego!

Despite not being able to see the soul, we can feel it in others.  Do you feel the strength of their light? We need to grow our own light by feeding it what it wants.  We all have a soul’s purpose. We just need to get the mind chatter out of the way to hear it!  Think about training the brain!!!!  If you overuse the brain, the ego takes over and you get a”big head” like Megamind, Minion’s best friend!

Train the brain to listen to your soul…and the body will take you where we need to go!  And the trinity within will become more balanced!

 

 

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